A Man Needs Respect Not Love
The popular theory states that women primarily want to feel loved, while men thrive on feeling respected. While there are certainly generalities that can be drawn, this belief ignores the important fact that a feeling of love encompasses a broad spectrum of feelings and behaviors. It includes a sense of security, stability, predictability, being adored and desired, feeling valued and appreciated, being supported by a partner, and being encouraged to pursue his own interests. It is important to understand that this feeling of love is necessary for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
According to Steve Harvey, a man only needs three things from his wife: support, loyalty and the cookie (sex). While he is right that most men do value these things, it is incorrect that they do not need love as well. In fact, it is important that a woman demonstrates her love and commitment to her husband by respecting his unique qualities, and showing him that she values and appreciates them.
A great way to show your man that you respect him is to listen to what he has to say and respond to it kindly. Also, refrain from speaking poorly about him in front of others. This is one of the most damaging actions a wife can do to her husband, and it sends the message that you do not believe in his abilities or deserve his respect. In addition, it is important that he feels comfortable discussing difficult topics with you and feeling safe sharing his innermost thoughts and insecurities. A man needs respect not love